If I do go back to the gravity type biofilter like the skippy, how big a container do I need for my 450 gallon pond?
I'm sorry to be a downer but I'm actually not a fan of any static submerged media filter, including the Skippy. There are many here who are very much in favor of the Skippy and they can help you.
But to answer your question from my perspective...it's impossible to say a certain size Skippy is right for any pond. At least logically. I mean anyone and their brother is only too happy to give their opinion and make it sound like it's some kind of fact. People generally just say "that size should be just fine", but it's pull out of thin air. And in most cases that's OK because no bio filter at all is actually needed. So a 5 or 500 gal Skippy would indeed be fine.
Combo filters
Skippy is a combo filter, doing both bio and mechanical. I'm addressing bio here because that's what keeps fish alive and is very easy to measure and understand.
Bio filters create an environment for ammonia and nitrite converting bacteria. These bacteria need different things including access to moving water which carries the ammonia, nitrite, O2, carbon, etc., they need to live. They can't survive if there's even the lightest coating of muck or dust on the media. So these work best in fast moving water with high O2.
Mechanical filters work like most people think, media traps muck. The more covered with muck they get the better they are. These work best in slow moving water, slower the better.
Combo filters like Skippy, pressurized and virtually all filters marketed to the backyard hobbyist, all try to combine both functions. But that is very hard to do well. In almost every case the media that's suppose to grow good bacteria gets covered in dust or muck which cuts it off from its food source. Sizing these becomes difficult because they change over time as muck covers the bio media killing more and more good bacteria.
Just a whole lot easier and better imo to split out the functions. So the bio stays clean and you don't have to mess with it when you clean the mechanical.
Better bio filters
Almost all higher end Koi ponds stopped using static submerged media for bio filters years ago. With things like the trickle towers, Bakki showers, and moving bed filters the media is washed clean 24/7 so they perform the same in a year as they do today. They're more predictable. They also convert about 10 times the amount of ammonia and nitrite because of higher O2 so these filters can be 10 times smaller which many people like.
However, all this bio stuff isn't really a big issue in water garden type ponds because the amount of fish in the pond and the amount of food is so low no bio filter is needed. The bacteria grow lots of places, not just inside filters. The "normal" bacteria population can handle the small amount of ammonia produced in many water gardens. Plus most water garden owners never test water so they'd have no idea if they had an ammonia problem or not.
And that is the bottom line for any bio filter. Whether you have no filter or 10 filters you measure ammonia and nitrite to tell if you need more bio filtering.
Simple solution...
If you keep things simple you start with no bio filter assuming a reasonable fish load. If you measure ammonia or nitrite you add a reasonable bio filter. The strawberry pot trickle tower is a good start for a 450 gal pond because it'll most likely convert more ammonia than a 55 gal drum Skippy. Or you add a Skippy or whatever. Then you keep measuring ammonia to see if you need more bio filter, or less fish, or smaller fish.
Complex way to size a bio filter...
Most filters marketed to hobbyists will say "for ponds X gals". That's actually fairly meaningless. A 1000 gal pond with no fish certainly needs no bio filter. That same pond with 10 full grown Koi will need waaaaay more bio filter. So some people say "X inches of fish". Better, but also not great. The real way to measure is by the amount of food that is fed. Given a weight of food the amount of ammonia produced can be estimated. Trickle tower, Bakki and moving bed filters can give pretty reliable conversion rates, so given an amount of ammonia a good estimate can be had for the filter size. This is way more complex than most people want to get into, even at the high end. But it can be helpful to at least understand the basics. That way if someone tells you "for a 450 gal pond you need a 45 gal filter" you know you're talking to someone who really doesn't know much about ponds.