How big is your pond? And what are you trying to keep in it?
The difference in flow from 2-3” piping isn’t going to mess up your pond. Unless you are trying to keep a dedicated koi pond. Eco ponds or hybrids are much more forgiving on flow and circulation, as plants are doing most of the filter work be it in a bog or in the pond proper, along with the SSA created by the gravel in the bogs you end up with a huge biological filter.
Flow rates aren’t that critical in ponding like it is in reef tanks. Smaller ponds, yes hitting the 2x an hour turnover of pond volume is a little more critical, the larger the pond not so much.
For example, Currently now that I enlarged my pond, I am just hitting 1x an hour in turnover or circulation about 10,000 gallons per hour going to the waterfall , and 3,000 gph per two bogs ( roughly 16,000 gph circulating but only 6000gph going through the “filter” ie the bogs) but my pond went from 10,000 gallons to 20,000 gallons, and the water circulates from one end to the other. There is also two 2000gph power heads, moving water towards the intake bay and an air pump. The pond actually has better circulation now with less turnover than it did when it was smaller.