Mmathis
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MY RECOMMENDATION: We add a DISCLAIMER statement to the Posting Information.....
TO NEW MEMBERS: "Waterbug is knowledgeable, and is a valuable member of our GPF Community. Please disregard his sarcasm, and don't take it personally. That's just the way he is -- annoying, but he adds 'spice' as well as information to our conversations!"
TO OLD MEMBERS: "You guys know how he is. Accept it. Get over it. Remember, it takes 2...."
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Yes, we do get some "lively" conversations going on here. And, yes, I agree that often some members (and it's not just WB, either, guys!) are not very sensitive. I hate to see a sarcastic comment made when someone is only asking for help. BUT....
The threads I MOST enjoy reading are the ones where we DON'T ATTACK either the OP or other members. These are the threads where we stay on-topic, on-course. Take care of the OP's question/issue/problem at hand. Sure, stick some education in there, too, but when you're drowning, you want a life preserver, not people asking why you never learned to swim when you were 5 years old.
Help them get past their emergency, then help them LEARN so it won't happen again. Throw them that life preserver, then introduce them to swimming lessons. If everyone stands around arguing and pointing fingers, then the guy's gonna drown.
MY MAIN POINT, I guess, is that there will always be "Waterbugs," in this world. And when he's good, he's really good! But I don't think it helps anyone, especially the OP, when we hijack the OP's post to argue and berate either the OP or each other.
TO NEW MEMBERS: "Waterbug is knowledgeable, and is a valuable member of our GPF Community. Please disregard his sarcasm, and don't take it personally. That's just the way he is -- annoying, but he adds 'spice' as well as information to our conversations!"
TO OLD MEMBERS: "You guys know how he is. Accept it. Get over it. Remember, it takes 2...."
_______________________________
Yes, we do get some "lively" conversations going on here. And, yes, I agree that often some members (and it's not just WB, either, guys!) are not very sensitive. I hate to see a sarcastic comment made when someone is only asking for help. BUT....
The threads I MOST enjoy reading are the ones where we DON'T ATTACK either the OP or other members. These are the threads where we stay on-topic, on-course. Take care of the OP's question/issue/problem at hand. Sure, stick some education in there, too, but when you're drowning, you want a life preserver, not people asking why you never learned to swim when you were 5 years old.
Help them get past their emergency, then help them LEARN so it won't happen again. Throw them that life preserver, then introduce them to swimming lessons. If everyone stands around arguing and pointing fingers, then the guy's gonna drown.
MY MAIN POINT, I guess, is that there will always be "Waterbugs," in this world. And when he's good, he's really good! But I don't think it helps anyone, especially the OP, when we hijack the OP's post to argue and berate either the OP or each other.