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New member! So, I had a pond and used a cheap material and it wasn't right so I have removed it, put the fish in a rigid pond. Ive bought a proper liner, underlay and overlay. Plus Ive dug it out some more.
Im a paramedic and suffer with depression and recently found out I have autism, arghhhhh! I only leave my house to go to work.
I just really wanted to have a pond, but its beating me and I feel like a failure. Ive probably spent nearly £1000 what with filters, plants, fish etc etc
So, I was literally about to line the pond and saw bees going into the sand id added. Ive tried water spray and today Ive tried smoking them out. It worked for a brief period but even then they weren't that bothered.
What the 'F' do I do! Im loathed to kill them, Ive not been stung, so I'm assuming they are digger bees. I'll see if I can add a video, but this shows them just above the pond, where I'll need to put the liner. There are bees right at the bottom of the pond too.
I literally feel Ive failed and nearly lost all motivation now, I feel like someone is trying to say I shouldn't have a pond. This is my last hope.
I dug it out late summer last year and want to try and enjoy a summer with all the plants and fish I have, plus its cruel keeping them in the small rigid pond until my pond is done. Ive tried to do everything right, but I think Im just rubbish at DIY. I watched all the YouTube tutorials etc.ntil they have gone because my fish need their pond back
The vid shows a silly incense stick! But I used smoking wood under the underlay (you might see some smoke from there). Would a proper smoker help, I think you could use a spray bottle with some essential oils. I thought Id got rid of them from the bottom and started moving the underlay, then I saw the new holes and in that time they started using the holes at the bottom again, arghhhhh
Any advice, as Im so close, I just don't wanna wait until autumn.
Cant upload video Im afraid
Im a paramedic and suffer with depression and recently found out I have autism, arghhhhh! I only leave my house to go to work.
I just really wanted to have a pond, but its beating me and I feel like a failure. Ive probably spent nearly £1000 what with filters, plants, fish etc etc
So, I was literally about to line the pond and saw bees going into the sand id added. Ive tried water spray and today Ive tried smoking them out. It worked for a brief period but even then they weren't that bothered.
What the 'F' do I do! Im loathed to kill them, Ive not been stung, so I'm assuming they are digger bees. I'll see if I can add a video, but this shows them just above the pond, where I'll need to put the liner. There are bees right at the bottom of the pond too.
I literally feel Ive failed and nearly lost all motivation now, I feel like someone is trying to say I shouldn't have a pond. This is my last hope.
I dug it out late summer last year and want to try and enjoy a summer with all the plants and fish I have, plus its cruel keeping them in the small rigid pond until my pond is done. Ive tried to do everything right, but I think Im just rubbish at DIY. I watched all the YouTube tutorials etc.ntil they have gone because my fish need their pond back
The vid shows a silly incense stick! But I used smoking wood under the underlay (you might see some smoke from there). Would a proper smoker help, I think you could use a spray bottle with some essential oils. I thought Id got rid of them from the bottom and started moving the underlay, then I saw the new holes and in that time they started using the holes at the bottom again, arghhhhh
Any advice, as Im so close, I just don't wanna wait until autumn.
Cant upload video Im afraid