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I had to leave neg feedback for a member on another forum.I sent them out in good faith I tried to work it out with this person but just got excuse after excuse. I'm sure it will be reciprocated but if you read what I wrote one can clearly see this cat was trying to scam... First it was I sent a runner not a tuber then it was there not worth $8 bucks. So I said just send the money I paid for shipping, Then it was I'm getting tired of messages from you bla bla bla.. He was the only person that complained of the 50 or so peeps I sent tubers too and I always send more than what is asked for...
 

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Some people just don't pay their bills.
they will come up with any reason not to pay
 
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Thanks Doc, I know its too bad.. I will continue to send and trade in good faith because I believe most people are honest good folks.
 

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Some people just don't respect others. Post it in the public where all can see that the person is a dead beat. Don't be afraid to let others know as well. BTW, Mine are doing great! Got the first leaves to the surface this morning! 16" of growth in one week, NOT BAD!!!
 

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life as it is some things never change and some people never change and that makes it bad for the rest who are being honest .
 

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When my husband died the worst scammers were my "husbands friends" unreal how may took advantage of me or tried too. Unfortunately I am a giving person and did I give and get hurt in the long run.
 

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I know how you feel when my parents were murdered the worst were my cousins and they tried to take advantage but it didn't work and I have not seen or heard from them sense .As soon as they found out there fake sympathy wasn't working believe it or not the day my parents were finally buried none of them showed up ,they had nothing to gain so why should they waste there time on fake sympathy .And I did not miss them and still do not miss them to this day .My life went on because my parents always told me be strong no matter what .
 

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yes and the worst was my parents just retired back to PA from NJ and had only been up there a week before it happened .I'm afraid it was drug addict family members who thought my parents had money in the house ,there money was still in a NJ bank and had not been touched because they were waiting for the sale of there house to go through in NJ and then when they got that they were going to put it all in a bank in PA .Some family huh .The worse was my sister was murdered the year before domestic violence her husband shot her, she left him ,he got even .Was a bad couple of years
 

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So sorry sissy, my problems are so minor compared to what you went though, for me it was just a bunch of money and broken promises.
Once people heard I was a widow, the predators came out.
My husband now protects me, he tells me I am too giving (us darn care givers lol)

I wish you many better years and happier times. You have a good soul, it shows in you helping your friends.

One of my doctor friends asked me, when he died, are/can you move on? He was concerned I would let all that happened affect me. I moved on happy, content and have a wonderful husband/friend/partner.

I can see the strength in you. Keep it going sissy.
 

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life goes on my parents said and sorry to hear what you went through also addy some people have no heart
 

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Hope maybe he see's his mistake pondboy and learns from it ,probably a false hope but still a hope .Treat people as you want to be treated and only good will come out of it .
 

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