Ponding, as grief therapy

[Tula]

I haven't been around much recently. My Dad passed away Feb. 1, 2016 and I was helping with his care, prior to that. I've felt such a deep sorrow , a profound loss.

Today was 64 degrees, so I went out to my pond. I have a fine mesh net over it, as I have a cedar tree above. I brushed off some debris, then laid on my tummy lifting the net, to peer into the water.

It was quiet and still, clear, cold water, with lush green algae . I saw all five of my koi and they were moving around slowly.

I felt so happy, it gives me something to look forward to, the opening of the pond. I believe ponding will be wonderful grief therapy for me this season. It fills me with appreciation of simple beauty and a sense of purpose, caring for these living jewels.

 

[HARO]

Please accept my deep sympathy for the loss of your father.
John

 

[Tula]

Please accept my deep sympathy for the loss of your father.
John

Thank you. It's the deepest sorrow I've ever felt, kind of crushing. Being my the pond today, was the most soothed I've felt, since he passed. I'm so happy I have it and Spring is right around the corner.

 

[addy1]

So sorry to hear. Sending you sympathy and a virtual hug.
I am glad your pond is helping in you sorrow.

We cared for my Dad he passed in our home. I can understand your sorrow.

 

[mrsclem]

Tula- So sorry for your loss. My father passed away suddenly 4 years ago. I wish I had been able to spend time with him before he passed. The pond is definitely a place to be to help you have something as a bright spot.

 

[RobAmy]

Sorry for your loss, glad your pond can brighten your day a little

 

[Big Lou]

Condolences Tula. I can personally attest that a garden pond is an excellent part of grief therapy. My heartfelt best wishes to you and yours.

Louis

 

[sissy]

Deepest sorrow for your loss and I also know ponding can be therapy for losses in our lives .

 

[peter hillman]

I'm glad you've found peace within your pond, moving water does something to us.
I know my father doesn't have much time left, I'm going to go see him today.

 

[Smaug]

May God and his wonders ease your pain.

 

[j.w]

So sorry for your loss @Tula

 

[bettasngoldfish]

I'm so sorry for your loss.....

Glad you are able to find some comfort enjoying your fish ❤

 

[Tula]

Thank you all, for your kind words. Today is 72 and sunny, it felt wonderful to feel the warmth of the sun on my face, clean some garden beds and peek at my koi again.

 

[Lisak1]

Beautiful sentiment @Tula - it's so true that our ponds can bring such peace and contentment. Condolences to you.

 

[haver79]

Tula so sorry for your loss. Our ponds and gardens can be therapeutic for sure. Hoping yours gives you some comfort.