Sound like any of you ladies?

[Timothy]

I have to say my wife is the "Finder". She'll come out to the shop to tell me something and I'll be wandering around half-listening when I hear "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?!!" then I explain it's about this long, with a blue handle, and I just had it a minute ago. She has never seen the thing in her life, but will walk over and pick it up "Is THIS it?"

"Yes dear, thank you."

I've gotten past being intimidated, embarrassed, or sheepish about her status as "Finder". I am basking in my mediocrity and transferring the burden of "searcher" to her. Makes my life far less stressful.